Passive Aggressive Behavior

Just had an interchange with someone that was so clearly passive aggressive that I am seething.

I know passive aggressive well. I've had good (or is that bad?) models with passive aggressive behavior in my lifetime... and I work very, very hard NOT to be passive aggressive. But when it comes my way, it is hard not to retaliate.

Meanwhile, I just found a website devoted to passive aggressive notes. Who knew? Ironically, it made me feel a little bit better. That's probably passive aggressive in and of itself.